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Stop Sitting On Your Passions


Guest post by Ashley Eneriz

When’s the last time you worked because you really wanted to? What was the last project you completed that you were really proud of? It is so easy to get caught up in jobs that just pay the bills. While working is essential for keeping finances afloat, it should not be everything.

I am a work-at-home mom who specializes in finance writing. I enjoy my job, but let’s be honest. Writing about taxes and retirement all day can leave one bored to tears. My true passion has always been to write children’s books.

I was so excited when the perfect idea and story for a children’s book popped into my head one late night. I quickly wrote it down and put it away. I could not get the story out of my head, even though I knew it would be nearly impossible to find a publisher for it. Agents and publishers want author/illustrator combos or celebrities or someone with a huge following. Being a good writer is not good enough on its own.

I realized that the only person who could make my dream come true was me. I couldn’t sit around and wait for that special deal to come or for an agent to magically pick up my story from the slush pile. I felt a little piece of me die every week that went by without getting a response from the agents I pitched to. I doubted myself. Maybe I am just not good enough.

The truth is that some of the most successful books and projects were ones that were originally rejected or failed. Most of us know of J.K. Rowling’s story of her humble beginnings and many rejections. She is only one of many people who were rejected initially and then went on to be successful. We can’t always trust the validity of rejections or failure.

My next step was to ask people their brutal, honest opinion of my story. I told people, “If it is a stupid story, tell me now. I won’t be offended, and you will be saving me a lot of time and money.” Everyone that read the story laughed at funny parts, said “aww” at the sweet parts, and said they loved it. I let them know how much was at risk if they weren’t honest, and they gave me their honest feedback.

If you have an idea in your head, bounce it off a few people who you trust. Be prepared to get the worst feedback, and don’t get offended if your idea is not well received. It is possible that your idea needs a little more time to cook in mind and imagination.

Next, I did some research and discovered several Indie writers who are creating children’s books and selling them on Amazon through Kindle. I was surprised to learn that many of them are actually successful. So I set out to do the same. I interviewed several illustrators and finally found one that just clicked with my story. It was as if she were taking a peak into my imagination when she sketched out the story.

The bottom line is, stop stuffing your passion or dream project into the drawer. It will never be the perfect timing and you will never have the perfect amount of money to start – that’s just not how life seems to work. Any step forward is a step in the right direction, so take that small step today. Don’t let your life pass without fulfilling your soul’s deepest dreams and passions.

 About Ashley Enerizpicture-53631-1411762551

Ashley Eneriz is a stay-at-home mom of two little girls and a finance writer. Her first children’s book, How to Sell Your Sister for Fun and Profit, will be published in February 2016. You can pre-order a signed copy and audiobook for $12 on her Kickstarter page.





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